Finding Comfort in Being Alone, Solo Date Ideas, Channeling Self-Awareness

You ask and you shall receive. The Jordan sisters have taken your suggestions on this week’s episode and are getting into the topic, of finding comfort in being alone, solo date ideas and channeling self-awareness.

Let’s be clear, it’s SO normal to feel uncomfortable being alone, and trust us on this one, you’re not the only one feeling this way.  So, this is your sign to lean into this discomfort and embrace this feeling as a sign of growth.

Our favorite, @maggiemcdonald, the queen of going solo and romanticizing her solo days in the life, reminded the Jordan sisters why it is so valuable to be alone - Being alone enables you to make genuinely authentic decisions, free from outside influences that might otherwise have an influence on how you act. Using this solo time is so important to discover what you truly desire and who you really are.

A couple reminders:

We are born to be unique from one another… so embrace it. Be yourself, at try not to be someone you are not.

Embrace your solo time, leave the phone at home and forget the headphones. This is your time to tune into your surroundings.

Be aware of your actions so you don’t mimic the unwanted traits of others

The perfect solo dinner date:

start the night off by putting on a cute outfit and take yourself out to dinner, sit at the bar (flirt with the bartender), order yourself your favorite mocktail and make your solo dinner a vibe. Channel the highest version of yourself and your energy will naturally attract those who you want to attract.

Inspo for your next solo date:

Self-care is essential… facial, nails, or a massage

Browse your favorite stores/ boutiques

Coffee + Journal (or forget the journal and simply people watch)

Buy yourself flowers (a mental health expense)

Solo movie night with your favorite snacks

Sauna + Plunge (obviously)