Is He Really That Into You??

The Jordan sisters are in our hot girl summer era. Lately, we’ve been getting a lot of the same situationship questions, ones we hear from friends, on socials, and even catch ourselves asking sometimes. So we decided to put them all on the table and give our honest take.

He’s liking my instagram story, is he into me?? 

Lets be honest, you probably posted a hot bikini pic and he’s liking your instagram story. Hate to say it but he’s not THAT into you. He probably thinks you look really good or wants to see you after a night out, but nothing more.

He’s texting me at 8pm is he into me or am I just a booty call? 

If you’re asking yourself this question, there you have your answer. You aren’t a priority, simply convenience. 

He takes two days to reply, then fires off three texts at once… what is this pattern?!
Classic. He’s into you… just not enough to actually commit. He likes the chase, not the commitment.

Our advice? Play the game, but play it better. Play hard to get, and act unbothered. Take three days to reply, then send one vague message. Let him spiral.

Is it a red flag if he never texts first but always responds when I do? 

It’s not exactly a green flag… Sometimes you do have to make the first move, but not every move. Abby and I live by the three-reach-out rule: you initiate three times, max. If he’s not reaching out after that, let him go.

How do you tell the difference between someone who’s just chill vs. someone who’s emotionally unavailable?

You can probably feel it in the Oura. If he’s still talking about his ex—babe, he’s emotionally unavailable. When you’re with someone who’s just genuinely chill, you’ll feel calm. Things might move slowly, but they’re clear. You’re not stuck overthinking every text, every silence, or every vague response.

What’s your go-to move when you feel like he’s pulling away?

Pull away. Don’t try harder, play harder to get. You want them to wondering where you are or what you’re doing 

Should I wait for him to reach out first?

We are reaching out in 2025… but let’s be clear, read the room first. Abby’s advice is to reach out, build a connection and get to know each-other. I prefer a more direct approach. Be blunt, tell him when you’re free and DON’T offer options. If he’s into it, he’ll make it happen. Guys love clarity more than they’ll admit.

He’s super flirty in texts, but barely says hi in person… What does that mean?

He’s texting (or snap-chatting cause he’s a baby) twelve other girls. He’s a huge flirt. We are all guilty of being a flirt over text. If you’re just here for the entertainment, enjoy the show.