Building Unbreakable Friendships, Giving Sisterly Advice & Owning What Makes You Unique with the 3rd Jordan Sister, Emylie Redmond
Emylie Redmond , the third sister in the family joins us this week. This week is all about building unbreakable friendships, giving sisterly sdvice & owning what makes you unique.
I’m sure the majority reading this can relate to being in a past relationship where you are blind to what your besties are not. Well, this is what best friends are for, to tell you how it is.
Being a part of this trio has taught us how to be open ears for each others honest opinions and be there for each other as we navigate relationships.
So, this is your sign to check in with yourself and your best friends. Reflect on whether you can have these open conversations with each other. If so, keep these friends close.
I asked Abby and Emylie big sister advice, regarding relationships, here’s what they said:
Abby: For those you who are finding yourself making all the plans, and having to take on a more “dominant” position. Abby has been there too. Reflecting on these relationship she’s set the intention of letting the man take plans into his own hands in her future relationship, or at LEAST sharing a 50/50 split of effort.
Emylie’s big sister advice is, which she finds herself holding close as she navigates her twenties: When you or the person on the other side of the relationship has to make big decisions. Fo example, a breakup, the decision made is truly what’s best. You can’t live your life with regrets, accept the situation and move forward.
Abby and Em reversed the convo and asked me for little sister advice. Here’s what I said… Stop being a people pleaser. I know that Im a blunt person but I will forever live by putting myself first before anyone and being my most authentic self, not changing my personality to fit within another group.
Anyone have that friend that just gets along with anyone in the room? Emylie is that girl. We always envy her for it, and think everyone needs a friend like this. We hopped on the TikTok trend of “every trio has” and made our own.
Emylie: the sensitive one
Erika: the blunt one
Abby: the one who takes life too seriously
Can anyone else relate to these three personalities with their trios?
Taking about our trio had us reflecting on the 5 core people that we surround ourselves with everyday. Now its your turn.
Are their personalities serving you to become a better version of you? Our trio always opens each other eyes to different perspectives, try to diversifying the personalities your with everyday, you will see so much self growth.
Abby and myself turn to movement as our version therapy. We asked Emylie what her form of therapy is:
Bullet journaling
Turning to her friends
Getting outside
Reflecting on one good thing that happened that day
Writing things down in her notes that makes the room laugh. Good memories are so important to reflect on
Try one of these next time you need an outlet, if it works, make it a habit :)